Remember when you were a kid and your mother used to tell you to not to mingle with bad kids!! It was easy to distinguish a bad kid from a good kid. Someone who usually indulges himself in street fights or someone who sits on the last bench in a classroom was considered to be a bad kid. On the other hand, someone who was good at studies or someone who was good natured was considered to be a good kid.
As you grow up the aforementioned definition of good and bad changes. (Here I assume my readers do not share camaraderie with criminals).
If you ever hear someone say ‘You Can’t!!’, then avoid that person for the rest of your life. It’s a leper’s bell of an approaching pessimist. Someone who hasn’t done anything significant in his life, someone who wants to see the rest of the world standing next to him in the dark and cold alleys of despondency . Avoid him!!
‘Hey. Don't ever let somebody tell you... You can't do something. Not even me. All right? You got a dream... You gotta protect it. People can't do somethin' themselves, they wanna tell you you can't do it. If you want somethin', go get it. Period’ - The Pursuit of Happyness
Always remember - 'One Life!!!'
PS : Surround yourself with achievers…optimists